kinds of relationships

For my first real post in this multiple-relisation journey, I have decided with trying to create a definintion between the type of realationships between people. Note that I like to use random examples. Which one are you?

1. Loose- (also known as f*** friends, bed buddies, we were drunk mistakes) This group of people see sex as just sex. Little emotion is involved so little drama arrises (UNLESS CHEATING IS GOING ON). A handful of people I know are loose types.

2. Drama Dating- Well you dated this guy until you found out he was doing it with someone else, now you spend most of your time trying to make him jealous by dating someone other than him. Out of all the relationships, this is the most high school oriented and is also the one I hate the most. Never happened to me but I'm tired of hearing the same old stories from the same old people. These relationships are based off of possesiveness, jealousy, and revenge.

3. Affection- This relationship has the widest range. It ranges in clarity. Sometimes two people know its love and sometimes its just confusing. You're not girlfriend and boyfriend but your not just friends. You're not lovers or in love. But somehow, you just can't see yourself without that person at your side.

There's many more but I'm getting tired because I worked a long day at Kohl's today.

I'd like to end with what I call DZ's Light, where I put my opinion and experience in the spotlight for all to see.

DZ's Light: When it comes to relationships, I say avoid the emotional ones. You know, the people who can't tell the truth to your face but rather hint towards it. They are easily upset and somewhat unstable. Mix this with the whole boyfriend/girlfriend bullshit and you got yourself a mess that is as stupid as it is annoying to listen to. I like the equation chicks+dicks=drama cause its true depending on who you are talking about.

I still have my v-card (virginity). I am not trying to get laid. I don't care if you have done it. That's good for you. I refuse to declare abstinance. I believe in free love, which means I believe sex is either for pleasure or love. Marriage has nothing to do with it. If you love someone, you can express it without the state's jurisdiction. Labling a relationship with boyfriend and girlfriend is another thing I don't understand. This is pretty much declaring that you promise to spend time together (away from your friends and family) but you don't love each other neccesarily.

One last comment I must make is that young people now a days (I sound like an old man but I'm 19) are getting married at 18 and having kids before 20. Take it slowly, the earlier you rush into things, the earlier you end up possibly regretting it. Divorce rates have reached all-time highs (over 50% for American couples). Most of them are results of rushing marriages or having kids. You love someone a lot right? Well ask yourself, do I need to be married now? Do I need to have kids right now? The reason you love eachother is not because you have wedding rings or a daughter/son. Eventually you'll have these things if you want them with the one you love.

Thanks for reading everybody. Not the most interesting of topics but one I felt that need to be said.
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